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Reader discussion: The Custom of the Country

Public reader discussion about The Custom of the Country in the WeRead Catalog by Edith Wharton.

Overlord’s premise is engaging at first, but it struggles hard to stay interesting

By UnfetterWrites

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The Undine Spragg of Montecito

By hareStill1977

The Custom of the Country is probably my favorite Edith Wharton book. Watching the main character sort of play out in real life and totally mess it up is kind of a train wreck moment—I just can’t look away.

[Schedule] The Custom of the Country by Edith Wharton

By ashforest3

Alright, here’s the plan for our next Gutenberg read: *The Custom of the Country* by Edith Wharton. I’m a huge Wharton fan, so I’m really excited to jump into another one of her books with you all. I’ll be running it along with u/lazylittlelady, u/Less_Tumbleweed_3217, and u/randoman11. The marginalia link is here. And here’s the Goodreads blurb: **Considered by many to be her masterpiece**, Wharton’s big novel is basically a sharp (but personal) look at the modern upper class—how they act, what they get up to, and all the weird stuff that comes with it. It follows Undine Spragg as she moves from New York to Europe, and you get this detailed look at the “interior décor” of America and the nouveau riche crowd. Undine herself is vain, spoiled, and selfish, but somehow also strangely fascinating, and the story tracks her marriages and affairs with a pretty twisty, satisfying plot. Overall it’s a pretty informed take on social behavior, but also pretty disenchanted. **Discussion schedule:** I split the book into 4 parts, and we’ll be doing check-ins on Mondays. - Monday 6th October – ch i to xi - Monday 13th October – ch xii to xx - Monday 20th October – ch xxi to xxxiii - Monday 27th October – ch xxxiv to end Hope to see you all in the discussions!

The Custom of the Country miniseries

By Mirror_Late

Just wrapped up The Custom of the Country—my first Edith Wharton thing—and I really, really liked it. I saw they’re supposedly working on a miniseries and now I can’t stop wondering who people would cast. Also curious what everyone thinks about Sofia Coppola’s adaptation, if that’s still the plan, and just in general how the book landed for you all.

[Discussion] The Ghost Stories of Edith Wharton by Edith Wharton| "Pomegranate Seed", "The Looking Glass" and "All Souls'"

By followsForest60

Glad to have one more round of Wharton stories, and of course they all feel like they’re ending on exactly the right note. There are three of them and they each kind of come at you sideways—myth stuff with Persephone in the mix, the Titanic always lurking in the background of the second one, and then the last story is all spooky All Souls Day vibes with a very “maybe witchy” feeling. **(1) Pomegranate Seed:** A widower with kids remarries, and the new wife keeps getting these weird letters that mess him up. He disappears right after kissing one, and she ends up getting help from his mother-in-law, who gets thrown off by the handwriting—even though the actual letter is totally unreadable. It just ends with a call to the police, which is… a lot, honestly. **(2) The Looking Glass:** An older woman is basically talking through the harm she caused her benefactress. Meanwhile, the benefactress’s client, Mrs. Clingsdale, is spiraling after losing her beauty—she’s fixated on being told she’s beautiful and on this lost love. The older woman kind of steps in with “soothsaying” energy, tries to wrap up the doomed romance by reaching out to the lover from the other side, and then there’s even a letter from beyond the grave. Her “reward” is tied up in masses for a dead patient. I didn’t totally know what to do with how all that lands. **(3) All Souls:** Sara Clayburn is content living at Whitegates with the old servants until she meets a stranger on a walk—the weird part is it’s like the woman is only there to see one of the girls. Sara slips, gets bedbound, it snows, and then the house turns eerie and silent—cold fires, no electricity, no heat. The only “voice” she hears is through the wireless, then she faints, wakes up, and kind of convinces herself she’s just alone in the silence. Even when the cousin comes and hangs around, things don’t really settle, because Sara later shows up on her cousin’s doorstep terrified, saying she saw the same woman again on All Souls night. What really got me is Agnes: she seems unsurprised, almost relieved Sara was gone, and later we find out she’s from Skye and maybe all this is more than just random haunting. So… was that Fetch thing real? Or was there an actual witch involved? And are Agnes and her relatives running some kind of coven?? Sara never returns, which feels like the only ending Wharton would give this. Also, the whole thing leaves me with that “I think I missed the key clue” feeling, especially since it’s not always clear what’s supernatural vs. what’s just people being awful.

Classics of literature with strong feminine characters

By EmmaLovesBooks

I’ve been working my way through a bunch of classic books over the last few years—Dumas, Dostoyevsky, Stevenson, Verne, all kinds of stuff in between. The one thing I keep running into is that a lot of the women characters I’ve seen are pretty powerless, super emotional, and either devoted to the main guy in a hopeless way or doing some kind of sneaky thing. I’m reading Frankenstein right now, and it feels like it bucks that trend a bit. Any other classics where the women are written as actually strong / well-developed?